My polyamorous romantic interest hit on a monogamous married man in front of me. Would that be considered unethical? Is it ever ethical for a polyfolk to pursue a monogamous person?
My boyfriend and I had an open relationship agreement while we were long distance for five months. He denied ever taking advantage of the five “free passes” during long distance. Two days after we closed the gap, he told me that he not only slept with one person but used up all five of his passes, breaking multiple rules during the process. How can we heal from this experience?
/u/hank_scorpio_the3rd writes on /r/polyamory… “I’m a 29/m in my first gay relationship with a 23/m. I genuinely love him with all my heart, he’s my favorite person. He had always talked about his best friend who lived out of state who was moving back home to where we are (friend […]
/u/nebstheunicorn_ on /r/relationship_advice writes…“I [31F] and my bf [35M] have been together a year’s. Very happy in every department but sex, I’m extremely unsatisfied and I’ve told him this many times and there’s been minimal effort put in on his part. So I was bored in the hospital for 2 […]
/u/TomorrowsUnsure on /r/relationship_advice writes… “Long story, my boyfriend is married to his wife of 10+ years and they have been in an unhappy marriage for a long time. Cue about 4 years ago we met online and started off friends and ended up liking each other a lot. We decided […]
/u/SockLee on /r/relationship_advice writes… “For some background, we’ve been together for about a year and a half, we’ve recently graduated college and got jobs in different cities. While I’m in, let’s say Chicago, she’s in let’s say New York, we have tried to make a long distance relationship work. About […]
/u/pjrevs on /r/relationship_advice writes… “I (24F) have been friends with Z (24M) for 5 years. Before we properly became friends, we kissed a couple of times on nights out but nothing ever came of it. In the past 4 years we’ve seen other people and discussed the people we’ve been […]
/u/dustybookends on /r/relationship_advice writes… “One of my [26F] best friends [28F] since college is starting an affair. She’s been with her partner for eight years and he’s not perfect, but I sincerely believe he tries his best. I know my friend is unhappy, but she doesn’t want to leave him […]
“…I’ve been married for 2 years to my wife who I absolutely love! However I recently made a new friend who has been over to visit both of us a couple of times. I think I’m falling in love with her as well, but that doesn’t mean I don’t love […]
Tea Time with Tomato 