My partner and I met up to do a full swap with another couple, and I couldn’t rise to the occasion. I feel so angry with myself and I am worried that I soured the entire experience. How can we get past this?
My girlfriend recently found out that her best friend is interested in watching us have sex. She was so excited that said yes before she even had an opportunity to check in with me. Is this a good idea?
My husband and I opened up about two years ago as a hotwife. Over those two years, it was all about me dating others. But my husband started dating recently, and I have been experiencing intense jealousy and sadness while he is on his solo dates. I recognize that this is hypocritical. Should I just suck it up?
“My husband want to swing together. He was in the lifestyle before we met and I always knew about it. So I promised him to try it. However, I’m having a really difficult time seeing him have sex with other girl. I am so jealous. And I don’t want to […]
/u/eldobhato_profil writes on /r/nonmonogamy… “My [29F] husband [28M] and I swapped with a couple [28F] [34M] last Saturday. Things went quite well initially, until we got down in the bedroom and my husband came a little earlier than he expected to. No worries, it happens, we thought. I checked in […]
/u/mourningblue on /r/polyamory writes… “My husband and I both are very intrigued by the idea of polyamory. We both believe love is exponential and we have amazing communication. The problem is I’m far more sexual than him and I think it would be impossible for us to do this with […]
/u/ThrewItOnTheGround09 on /r/polyamory writes… “My husband – we’ll call him B (33M) and I (32F) have been together for 13 years, and non monogamous for 5. We publicly presented as mono, but would meet couples for sex. I was permitted to have ongoing relationships with women, but not with men. […]
Hi! Welcome to my new advice column/blog Tea Time with Tomato. I am Tomato and this will be my first entry where I hope to set some groundwork for discussing non-monogamy at large. In this post, I will define what each of the larger classifications of non-monogamy and what distinguishes […]
Tea Time with Tomato 