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Advice – Swap went south.

/u/eldobhato_profil writes on /r/nonmonogamy… “My [29F] husband [28M] and I swapped with a couple [28F] [34M] last Saturday. Things went quite well initially, until we got down in the bedroom and my husband came a little earlier than he expected to. No worries, it happens, we thought. I checked in […]

Advice – Swinging to Poly?

/u/ThrewItOnTheGround09 on /r/polyamory writes… “My husband – we’ll call him B (33M) and I (32F) have been together for 13 years, and non monogamous for 5. We publicly presented as mono, but would meet couples for sex. I was permitted to have ongoing relationships with women, but not with men. […]

Variations of Ethical Non-Monogamy

Hi! Welcome to my new advice column/blog Tea Time with Tomato. I am Tomato and this will be my first entry where I hope to set some groundwork for discussing non-monogamy at large. In this post, I will define what each of the larger classifications of non-monogamy and what distinguishes […]