I communicated with my current boyfriend early on that I will not be in a romantic relationship with someone who isn’t out to everyone in his life, and thus cannot properly do poly relationships. Over a miscommunication, I found out he wasn’t as out as he said he was. Am I making too much out of this disconnect?
My polyamorous romantic interest hit on a monogamous married man in front of me. Would that be considered unethical? Is it ever ethical for a polyfolk to pursue a monogamous person?
I followed my fiance to a completely new state when he accepted a well-paying job. In the process, we had to sell our house, I had to quit my job, and postpone our wedding plans. I am having a lot of difficulty finding a job in my current field, and I feel completely lost in my new surrounding. How can I feel less trapped and isolated while still celebrating my fiance’s professional success?
My girlfriend came out to her mother as bisexual and polyamorous, and it did not go well. How can I and our shared partner support her? What should we do?
I am meeting a lot of new and interesting people through parties. But I’m not sure how I can communicate that, even though I’m partnered, I am interested in dating new people. How can I bring up my open relationship without it being awkward?
I feel more strongly connected with my new partner – romantically, emotionally, and sexually. So when my wife asked me if I feel more for my partner, I honestly told her that I did. Am I wrong here? Am I wrong for liking one partner more than another?
I feel so illogically insecure about my husband’s relationship with his relationship anarchist girlfriend, who recently moved out of her nesting partner’s home. How can I identify these feelings and subsequently process these feelings better?
My boyfriend and I are planning to live together in about a year, and he asked me that when we move in, I have to stop receiving any and all financial support from my parents. We were raised in a completely different financial upbringing. And I’m not sure if this is a reasonable ultimatum. Is it normal to merge your finances when you move in together?
I met someone about two months ago who was only going to be in town temporarily before he moves away. In those past two months, I had just the best time with the most respectful and kind person I’ve ever had a chance to connect with. Now that he has moved away, my heart yearns and aches for him. How can I move on? What if he was the one?
My partner is being abused by my metamour. While I am trying to do my best to maintain boundaries at places I can control, my partner keeps on going back to their abuser, perpetuating the cycle of abuse onto themself and indirectly to me. What can I do to protect myself and my partner?