My husband and I have had an open marriage for the past twenty years, but I have only just started to date others. My husband recently questioned my sexual motives for seeking other connections, and asked me to look deeper. Am I superficial? Is sex really that different?
Things are so hot and cool with my coworker. He constantly flirts with me and tells me that I’m very attractive. But he said he isn’t interested in pursuing a relationship with me. What should I do?
I recently ended things with one partner because my metamour made the relationship with our shared partner impossible to maintain. And now my other partner is interested in pursuing a relationship with my former metamour. I am feeling so incredibly jealous and insecure about their budding connection. How can I better manage my feelings?
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?
I feel so anxious every time my boyfriend sleeps with another person. I really want to be ethically non-monogamous, but I hate being washed ashore by every little thing. How can I better manage my feelings?
My polyamorous relationship has grown and changed a lot in the past five years. But I am struggling to feel prioritized in my relationship even though it is by default non-hierarchical. Is this a problem that I need to focus on? How can I manage these feelings of insecurity?
My boyfriend keeps on calling me cute and adorable. I want to be sexy instead. How can I get out of my headspace about sexual confidence to feel more sexy in my own skin?
My wife and I have an open phone policy where we can read each other’s text conversations at will. It is making me feel uncomfortable because my new partner shared something vulnerable with me that I don’t think she would want my wife to read. Is this normal for other poly couples as well?
I matched with someone on a dating platform about a year ago. He wasn’t really looking for a relationship at the time, but I find myself developing attraction toward him during our conversations. He is finally coming into town for coffee. How can I figure out if he is interested in pursuing a polyamorous relationship with me during this coffee “date”?
I just discovered that a man who I met on a short visit to see my family was actually married. How can I handle this situation? Should I even do anything?