My friend might have misread my intention when I opened up to him about being polyamorous. He kept on insinuating that I was the one coming onto him, even though I told him I was never interested. I am so confused on how to deal with this.
Estimated reading time: 22 minutes
My husband and I opened up recently. He doesn’t really want to date, but is okay with me dating others. As I’ve made new connections and started talking to new people, I’m decidedly unsure how much I should talk about my other connections with my husband. How much should I share?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes
I am new to the world of polyamory and I’m struggling to recognize and celebrate the success of our relationship without the relationship escalator. How can I get out of my own head about this monogamy programming?
Estimated reading time: 10 minutes
My wife and I both have other partners. But she seems to enjoy having sex with her other partners more than she does with me. Is this NRE? How can I address the growing resentment?
Estimated reading time: 11 minutes
My fiance has always loved my ass. We’ve been trying to have more anal sex, but I am having a lot of difficulty relaxing through all the stimulation. What can I do to try and ease the process?
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
My nesting partner and I are dating a couple together. Recently, I realized that all of our scheduling revolves around the other couple. There are kids and jobs and logistics to consider. How can I address my hurt in a non-confrontational way?
Estimated reading time: 10 minutes
About four years ago, I webcammed for a couple months. I am really scared that my boyfriend will find out about my sex work experience from a video or a picture that might be posted online without my consent. Should I even tell him?
Estimated reading time: 11 minutes
On a routine STI screening, I recently tested positive for chlamydia even though I tested negative two months ago. Does this mean that my boyfriend has definitively cheated on me?
Estimated reading time: 5 minutes
My partner and I met up to do a full swap with another couple, and I couldn’t rise to the occasion. I feel so angry with myself and I am worried that I soured the entire experience. How can we get past this?
Estimated reading time: 5 minutes
My boyfriend and I have mutually decided to split after the lockdown orders end. While I can see that we are ending our relationship for the right reasons, I can’t help but think that we could still be together. How can I reconcile with myself?
Estimated reading time: 6 minutes