My friend might have misread my intention when I opened up to him about being polyamorous. He kept on insinuating that I was the one coming onto him, even though I told him I was never interested. I am so confused on how to deal with this.
My husband and I opened up recently. He doesn’t really want to date, but is okay with me dating others. As I’ve made new connections and started talking to new people, I’m decidedly unsure how much I should talk about my other connections with my husband. How much should I share?
I am new to the world of polyamory and I’m struggling to recognize and celebrate the success of our relationship without the relationship escalator. How can I get out of my own head about this monogamy programming?
My wife and I both have other partners. But she seems to enjoy having sex with her other partners more than she does with me. Is this NRE? How can I address the growing resentment?
My nesting partner and I are dating a couple together. Recently, I realized that all of our scheduling revolves around the other couple. There are kids and jobs and logistics to consider. How can I address my hurt in a non-confrontational way?
My wife and I recently opened up with an agreement that we don’t talk directly with each other’s dates. But how can we make sure that the women I’m dating can trust that we are in an honest and consensual open marriage?
“I just discovered that a married couple I’m close to is going through a separation. Over time, I discovered that she forced polyamory upon her husband, and was the eventual cause to the breakup. How can I hold her accountable without alienating her?”
My husband and I opened up about two years ago as a hotwife. Over those two years, it was all about me dating others. But my husband started dating recently, and I have been experiencing intense jealousy and sadness while he is on his solo dates. I recognize that this is hypocritical. Should I just suck it up?
I have been dating my non-nesting partner for two years. I have recently come into realization that we never had an opportunity to talk about our financial goals and retirement plans. I am scared about bringing this up with my partner, especially since we each have our respective nesting spouses and do not share finances with each other. How can I start this discussion with my partner?
My husband started dating someone new about a year ago. At first, I was really happy to see my husband be happy. But when she moved in a couple months ago, I started noticing a couple warning signs. I feel so lost and exhausted about how to approach this with my husband. Am I just overreacting?
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