My wife and I have an open phone policy where we can read each other’s text conversations at will. It is making me feel uncomfortable because my new partner shared something vulnerable with me that I don’t think she would want my wife to read. Is this normal for other poly couples as well?
Estimated reading time: 6 minutes
I matched with someone on a dating platform about a year ago. He wasn’t really looking for a relationship at the time, but I find myself developing attraction toward him during our conversations. He is finally coming into town for coffee. How can I figure out if he is interested in pursuing a polyamorous relationship with me during this coffee “date”?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes
My wife has been struggling to accept her polyamorous and bisexual identity for the past three years. How can I better support her in these difficult times?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes
My boyfriend is breaking up with his wife. I got really close my metamour as a close friend over the past year. I feel like I am being put in a very difficult place – in the middle – of their failing marriage. How can I manage this difficult situation?
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
My monogamous boyfriend made out with my monogamous metamour in a state of inebriation. I feel so confused and betrayed. Is this considered cheating?
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
“My partner John [29M] and I [23F] have been together for around 4 years, we’ve been poly from the start. We’ve both seen other people on and off and been able to work out boundaries comfortably before. Recently I’ve started talking to and getting involved (sexually, not romantically) with our […]
Estimated reading time: 19 minutes
“I need advice on how I should handle my overwhelming emotions when it comes to my [25F] partner’s [25M] feelings on polyamory and open relationships. Some background on myself. I’ve been a unicorn in the past to heterosexual couples and I thought it gave me an understanding of what open […]
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes
“My partner and I have been together for 15 years and married for 13. We opened up our marriage four years ago. She has been with several men and I have not been with other women other than threesomes that included my wife. I have attempted to date other women […]
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes