My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
My spouse and I have hit a very turbulent stretch in our relationship following a very traumatic experience. My spouse is in denial about the degree of betrayal in his boundary violations, and cannot take responsibility to heal and recover. How can I salvage this relationship? Is this even salvageable?
I currently live with my partner with their polycule of five. One metamour is having a really difficult time with making and respecting the space I want to have with my partner. The conflict is making me scared to talk to my metamour. How can I manage my feelings in a more productive way for everyone?
My wife and I are non-monogamous. She has been sleeping with someone new and I want to implement a rule that requires them to sleep at our home so that I can see what they’re doing. Is this ethical?
When my wife and I opened up our marriage, I found a good sexual connection with someone right away. I feel so insecure when I see him update his Tinder profile even though we are non-exclusive. How can I chill out?
Three months ago, I moved in with my two friends who happen to be a couple. One of my friend hooked up with me two weeks after I moved in and we all decided to be a polyamorous triad after a talk. Quarantine made things cool off with both of my partners. How can I advocate for my own needs in this triad relationship?
My partner and I have recently discussed opening up. After a lot of heated discussion, we have finally come to an understanding to only seek threesomes with specific rules. How can I regulate my emotions? What kind of tips and advice can you provide for facilitating threesomes?
My girlfriend recently got involved with someone who has a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell policy with his wife. Even though my partner and I’ve never had a DADT agreement, my meta is enforcing a DADT through my partner and refusing to engage with me on any level. I feel like I’m going crazy.
I want to be in a polyfidelitous relationship with my partner. But I can’t look past the negative criticism against poly-fi relationships, especially online. Is poly-fi even viable? How can we ethically look for our third?
I keep having small fights and bouts with my partner’s other partners. My partner doesn’t think that he can date others without getting someone upset. How can I be a better metamour for his future partners?
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