My wife has been seeing a person for the last couple months. Recently, she found out that he and his partner are in the middle of their separation / divorce process. My wife and I have a standing agreement that we would stop dating if that were to happen to us. Is it normal for them to keep dating?
I communicated with my current boyfriend early on that I will not be in a romantic relationship with someone who isn’t out to everyone in his life, and thus cannot properly do poly relationships. Over a miscommunication, I found out he wasn’t as out as he said he was. Am I making too much out of this disconnect?
My girlfriend came out to her mother as bisexual and polyamorous, and it did not go well. How can I and our shared partner support her? What should we do?
I am meeting a lot of new and interesting people through parties. But I’m not sure how I can communicate that, even though I’m partnered, I am interested in dating new people. How can I bring up my open relationship without it being awkward?
I feel more strongly connected with my new partner – romantically, emotionally, and sexually. So when my wife asked me if I feel more for my partner, I honestly told her that I did. Am I wrong here? Am I wrong for liking one partner more than another?
I feel so illogically insecure about my husband’s relationship with his relationship anarchist girlfriend, who recently moved out of her nesting partner’s home. How can I identify these feelings and subsequently process these feelings better?
My partner is being abused by my metamour. While I am trying to do my best to maintain boundaries at places I can control, my partner keeps on going back to their abuser, perpetuating the cycle of abuse onto themself and indirectly to me. What can I do to protect myself and my partner?
My wife and I opened our marriage up about a month ago. Over the first month, my wife slept with five men while I started developing a deeper connection to a close friend. When my wife found out, she started getting uncomfortable with me exploring other relationships. It feels so hypocritical. Am I in the wrong?
My partner is planning on breaking up with my other partner in our triad. I’m struggling with the amount of emotional labor that lie ahead. How can I weather this storm for each of our partner? Should I break up with my other partner as well?
I have been dating my husband for almost two decades and my wife for a couple years. I’m starting to envision what it would be like for them to date each other. How can I make a triad happen?
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