My husband and I have had an open marriage for the past twenty years, but I have only just started to date others. My husband recently questioned my sexual motives for seeking other connections, and asked me to look deeper. Am I superficial? Is sex really that different?
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?
I feel so anxious every time my boyfriend sleeps with another person. I really want to be ethically non-monogamous, but I hate being washed ashore by every little thing. How can I better manage my feelings?
I matched with someone while I was on a break with my ex who at the time wanted an open relationship. I got back together with my ex while my new match was out of town. How do I initiate the discussions on opening up on our relationship?
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
“I need advice on how I should handle my overwhelming emotions when it comes to my [25F] partner’s [25M] feelings on polyamory and open relationships. Some background on myself. I’ve been a unicorn in the past to heterosexual couples and I thought it gave me an understanding of what open […]
“My partner and I have been together for 15 years and married for 13. We opened up our marriage four years ago. She has been with several men and I have not been with other women other than threesomes that included my wife. I have attempted to date other women […]
“Just opened and honestly a little a naive of me, but I never really thought about the whole getting romantic attachments to people we have sex with. I know, duh, but like there’s a lot to process in these early stages. Is it doable to try and keep things casual […]
“Hello. My boyfriend is dating two new girls, they are both super attractive and even nice. They both play many sports and are very very fit. I have been struggling with my body image for years… and it got worse when i had problems with my spine.. some nerves got […]
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