Advice – He says he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship with me.
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
Advice – How do I get started with non-monogamy?
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
Advice – Overwhelmed with feelings when first trying open relationships.
“I need advice on how I should handle my overwhelming emotions when it comes to my [25F] partner’s [25M] feelings on polyamory and open relationships. Some background on myself. I’ve been a unicorn in the past to heterosexual couples and I thought it gave me an understanding of what open […]
Advice – Open marriage problems.
“My partner and I have been together for 15 years and married for 13. We opened up our marriage four years ago. She has been with several men and I have not been with other women other than threesomes that included my wife. I have attempted to date other women […]
Advice – Non-romantic Non-monogamy.
“Just opened and honestly a little a naive of me, but I never really thought about the whole getting romantic attachments to people we have sex with. I know, duh, but like there’s a lot to process in these early stages. Is it doable to try and keep things casual […]
Advice – Boyfriend is dating super attractive girls.
“Hello. My boyfriend is dating two new girls, they are both super attractive and even nice. They both play many sports and are very very fit. I have been struggling with my body image for years… and it got worse when i had problems with my spine.. some nerves got […]
Advice – I am in love with two people.
Anonymous writes… “I’m a 25F who is in an 8yr relationship with a 28M (J). We live 3 hours away from each other and are happy with making the distance work, I love him and happily see a future with him. He’s amazing and I can’t imagine my life without […]
Advice – New to polyamory.
/u/thatmomchick writes on /r/nonmonogamy… “I brought up the concept to my husband as I have always leaned toward polyamory but have not until recently known it was an actual thing. My husband and I have a stable relationship of over 3 years and a child together. I would like to […]
Advice – How do I handle the transition from being open to poly?
[TW: mentions of self-harm, ideation.] Anonymous writes… “… So my primary partner is my fiance [22M] of 4 years and my secondary is my boyfriend [37M] who has been one of my closest friends for over a year and a half. I’d almost say he’s my one of my best […]
Advice – Feeling insecure over my partner’s feelings for another.
/u/Lumera87 on /r/nonmonogamy writes… “… My SO [32M] and I [32F] met a little over 6 months ago and had a very intense connection that has evolved into love and a more serious future for us. We both communicated being open from the beginning and our interest in continuing a […]
