Advice – Becoming a secondary partner.
My polyamorous partner decided we should be secondary partners instead. How can I manage my feelings in this new transition?
Advice – Backsliding in a non-monogamous relationship.
My husband and I opened up our relationship when he developed a crush for his coworker. Ever since then, his coworker/FWB has degraded the quality of my marriage. My tanking self-esteem is making it really hard for me to advocate for my own needs. How can I course-correct?
Advice – Am I polyamorous?
I’m currently single and I have been thinking a lot more about exploring and pursuing non-monogamy. How can I be a part of a closed triad or a quad?
Advice – Should I look for a deeper meaning in pursuing my other connections?
My husband and I have had an open marriage for the past twenty years, but I have only just started to date others. My husband recently questioned my sexual motives for seeking other connections, and asked me to look deeper. Am I superficial? Is sex really that different?
Advice – How do I have better sex? (NSFW)
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?
Advice – My anxiety seem to wholly disagree with my desire to pursue non-monogamy.
I feel so anxious every time my boyfriend sleeps with another person. I really want to be ethically non-monogamous, but I hate being washed ashore by every little thing. How can I better manage my feelings?
Advice – I met someone while on a break with my partner. How can I initiate opening the relationship?
I matched with someone while I was on a break with my ex who at the time wanted an open relationship. I got back together with my ex while my new match was out of town. How do I initiate the discussions on opening up on our relationship?
Advice – He says he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship with me.
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
Advice – How do I get started with non-monogamy?
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
Advice – Overwhelmed with feelings when first trying open relationships.
“I need advice on how I should handle my overwhelming emotions when it comes to my [25F] partner’s [25M] feelings on polyamory and open relationships. Some background on myself. I’ve been a unicorn in the past to heterosexual couples and I thought it gave me an understanding of what open […]
