I realized during this COVID quarantine that my boyfriend means a lot more to me than I originally thought. While my husband and I theoretically practiced non-hierarchical polyamory, we’ve never had to put that theory into practice. So what can I expect as my relationships become more egalitarian?
My polyamorous relationship has grown and changed a lot in the past five years. But I am struggling to feel prioritized in my relationship even though it is by default non-hierarchical. Is this a problem that I need to focus on? How can I manage these feelings of insecurity?
/u/kjones139 asks on /r/polyamory… “I have had another connection end while describing the hierarchical polyamory my wife and I practice. Apparently the new in thing is relationship anarchy. I am committed to my wife. We share finances. We have a home together. We take care of each other when we […]
/u/Kase_maschine writes on /r/polyamory… “I’m wondering for those who ventured into poly by “opening up” a mono marriage, how do you work with being poly yet minimize the hierarchy that can come with having a spouse/nesting partner? We are not planning to enmesh living situations or finances with other partners, […]