My husband and I opened up recently. He doesn’t really want to date, but is okay with me dating others. As I’ve made new connections and started talking to new people, I’m decidedly unsure how much I should talk about my other connections with my husband. How much should I share?
I am new to the world of polyamory and I’m struggling to recognize and celebrate the success of our relationship without the relationship escalator. How can I get out of my own head about this monogamy programming?
My wife and I opened our marriage up about a month ago. Over the first month, my wife slept with five men while I started developing a deeper connection to a close friend. When my wife found out, she started getting uncomfortable with me exploring other relationships. It feels so hypocritical. Am I in the wrong?
Two weeks ago, my husband quickly developed a connection with a woman he met. He realized he was polyamorous and communicated as such. But he is going way too fast for my own comfort. How can I properly communicate my discomfort?
When my wife and I opened up our marriage, I found a good sexual connection with someone right away. I feel so insecure when I see him update his Tinder profile even though we are non-exclusive. How can I chill out?
I’m currently single and I have been thinking a lot more about exploring and pursuing non-monogamy. How can I be a part of a closed triad or a quad?
I matched with someone while I was on a break with my ex who at the time wanted an open relationship. I got back together with my ex while my new match was out of town. How do I initiate the discussions on opening up on our relationship?
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
“I need advice on how I should handle my overwhelming emotions when it comes to my [25F] partner’s [25M] feelings on polyamory and open relationships. Some background on myself. I’ve been a unicorn in the past to heterosexual couples and I thought it gave me an understanding of what open […]
“Just opened and honestly a little a naive of me, but I never really thought about the whole getting romantic attachments to people we have sex with. I know, duh, but like there’s a lot to process in these early stages. Is it doable to try and keep things casual […]
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