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Advice – In a long distance relationship, fantasizing about strangers.

My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. Due to the distance and the current global pandemic, it doesn’t look like we can close the gap anytime soon. In the meantime, I’ve been fantasizing about sleeping with other people, and feel like I am missing out on an opportunity experience the college sex life I dreamed of. What should I do? How can I talk about this with my boyfriend?

Advice – What is considered emotional affair?

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he felt deeply uncomfortable with the close connection I have with one of my professional colleagues. While I do talk to my friend closely, there has never been anything romantic or sexual between us. Despite this, my ex accused me of cheating on him emotionally with my friend. Did I cheat on him? How can I get over his judgment?

Advice – I regret relocating with my fiance.

I followed my fiance to a completely new state when he accepted a well-paying job. In the process, we had to sell our house, I had to quit my job, and postpone our wedding plans. I am having a lot of difficulty finding a job in my current field, and I feel completely lost in my new surrounding. How can I feel less trapped and isolated while still celebrating my fiance’s professional success?

Advice – My boyfriend gave me an ultimatum.

My boyfriend and I are planning to live together in about a year, and he asked me that when we move in, I have to stop receiving any and all financial support from my parents. We were raised in a completely different financial upbringing. And I’m not sure if this is a reasonable ultimatum. Is it normal to merge your finances when you move in together?