My boyfriend was invited to a weekend couple’s getaway trip with some of his old friends from his frat days. I declined because I am paranoid about the COVID transmission risks. I feel so uncomfortable with the number of people who’ll be at this event for the entire weekend. Should have I asked him not to go?
My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. Due to the distance and the current global pandemic, it doesn’t look like we can close the gap anytime soon. In the meantime, I’ve been fantasizing about sleeping with other people, and feel like I am missing out on an opportunity experience the college sex life I dreamed of. What should I do? How can I talk about this with my boyfriend?
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he felt deeply uncomfortable with the close connection I have with one of my professional colleagues. While I do talk to my friend closely, there has never been anything romantic or sexual between us. Despite this, my ex accused me of cheating on him emotionally with my friend. Did I cheat on him? How can I get over his judgment?
I discovered that my boyfriend has an OnlyFans account. He paid about $200 in content recently, and it is majorly triggering my insecurities and anxiety. He already apologized but I can’t stop thinking about how I feel like I got cheated on. How can we move past this?
A friend of my boyfriend came into town who he hasn’t seen in a long time. But things got really weird when they started being intimate with each other even though we are in a monogamous relationship. Am I being paranoid about feeling weirded out?
I feel really scared that I’ll be tempted to cheat on my fiancee in the future. I hate that I might not be able to resist cheating in the future. How can I train myself to avoid this so that I can be the rock solid monogamous partner my fiancee deserves?
My polyamorous romantic interest hit on a monogamous married man in front of me. Would that be considered unethical? Is it ever ethical for a polyfolk to pursue a monogamous person?
I followed my fiance to a completely new state when he accepted a well-paying job. In the process, we had to sell our house, I had to quit my job, and postpone our wedding plans. I am having a lot of difficulty finding a job in my current field, and I feel completely lost in my new surrounding. How can I feel less trapped and isolated while still celebrating my fiance’s professional success?
My boyfriend and I are planning to live together in about a year, and he asked me that when we move in, I have to stop receiving any and all financial support from my parents. We were raised in a completely different financial upbringing. And I’m not sure if this is a reasonable ultimatum. Is it normal to merge your finances when you move in together?
I met someone about two months ago who was only going to be in town temporarily before he moves away. In those past two months, I had just the best time with the most respectful and kind person I’ve ever had a chance to connect with. Now that he has moved away, my heart yearns and aches for him. How can I move on? What if he was the one?