I feel so illogically insecure about my husband’s relationship with his relationship anarchist girlfriend, who recently moved out of her nesting partner’s home. How can I identify these feelings and subsequently process these feelings better?
My partner is being abused by my metamour. While I am trying to do my best to maintain boundaries at places I can control, my partner keeps on going back to their abuser, perpetuating the cycle of abuse onto themself and indirectly to me. What can I do to protect myself and my partner?
My spouse and I have hit a very turbulent stretch in our relationship following a very traumatic experience. My spouse is in denial about the degree of betrayal in his boundary violations, and cannot take responsibility to heal and recover. How can I salvage this relationship? Is this even salvageable?
My girlfriend recently got involved with someone who has a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell policy with his wife. Even though my partner and I’ve never had a DADT agreement, my meta is enforcing a DADT through my partner and refusing to engage with me on any level. I feel like I’m going crazy.
I keep having small fights and bouts with my partner’s other partners. My partner doesn’t think that he can date others without getting someone upset. How can I be a better metamour for his future partners?
My husband and I opened up our relationship when he developed a crush for his coworker. Ever since then, his coworker/FWB has degraded the quality of my marriage. My tanking self-esteem is making it really hard for me to advocate for my own needs. How can I course-correct?
My metamour recently established a boundary that I am no longer welcome in their shared house, following our first vacation together. My boyfriend and I are both stumped on how to manage this. How can I feel compersion toward my boyfriend’s marriage again?
I recently ended things with one partner because my metamour made the relationship with our shared partner impossible to maintain. And now my other partner is interested in pursuing a relationship with my former metamour. I am feeling so incredibly jealous and insecure about their budding connection. How can I better manage my feelings?
My boyfriend is breaking up with his wife. I got really close my metamour as a close friend over the past year. I feel like I am being put in a very difficult place – in the middle – of their failing marriage. How can I manage this difficult situation?
“Here’s my situation: I’m a bisexual cis-woman in my mid 20s who started dating a queer cis-man several years older than me. We’ve been together for a few years now. I had never heard of polyamory until I met him. He introduced me to The Ethical Slut and it changed […]
