My partner got really upset when he discovered that I earned tips from my part-time job. He claims that it is our money to spend, not my own. He constantly asks me where I am spending money. Is he controlling or am I being irrational?
My spouse and I have hit a very turbulent stretch in our relationship following a very traumatic experience. My spouse is in denial about the degree of betrayal in his boundary violations, and cannot take responsibility to heal and recover. How can I salvage this relationship? Is this even salvageable?
My husband and I opened up our relationship when he developed a crush for his coworker. Ever since then, his coworker/FWB has degraded the quality of my marriage. My tanking self-esteem is making it really hard for me to advocate for my own needs. How can I course-correct?
I realized during this COVID quarantine that my boyfriend means a lot more to me than I originally thought. While my husband and I theoretically practiced non-hierarchical polyamory, we’ve never had to put that theory into practice. So what can I expect as my relationships become more egalitarian?
I really want to be able to deepthroat my husband. How can I defeat my gag reflex?
My metamour recently established a boundary that I am no longer welcome in their shared house, following our first vacation together. My boyfriend and I are both stumped on how to manage this. How can I feel compersion toward my boyfriend’s marriage again?
My husband of fifteen years recently communicated to me that he too will like to date others to make new connections for himself. We’ve been “open” for the past eleven years, but I am really struggling with jealousy. How can I better manage my insecurities so that it doesn’t impede his progress?
My husband and I have had an open marriage for the past twenty years, but I have only just started to date others. My husband recently questioned my sexual motives for seeking other connections, and asked me to look deeper. Am I superficial? Is sex really that different?
I just discovered that a man who I met on a short visit to see my family was actually married. How can I handle this situation? Should I even do anything?
“My husband want to swing together. He was in the lifestyle before we met and I always knew about it. So I promised him to try it. However, I’m having a really difficult time seeing him have sex with other girl. I am so jealous. And I don’t want to […]