My husband and I opened up our relationship when he developed a crush for his coworker. Ever since then, his coworker/FWB has degraded the quality of my marriage. My tanking self-esteem is making it really hard for me to advocate for my own needs. How can I course-correct?
I realized during this COVID quarantine that my boyfriend means a lot more to me than I originally thought. While my husband and I theoretically practiced non-hierarchical polyamory, we’ve never had to put that theory into practice. So what can I expect as my relationships become more egalitarian?
I really want to be able to deepthroat my husband. How can I defeat my gag reflex?
My metamour recently established a boundary that I am no longer welcome in their shared house, following our first vacation together. My boyfriend and I are both stumped on how to manage this. How can I feel compersion toward my boyfriend’s marriage again?
My husband of fifteen years recently communicated to me that he too will like to date others to make new connections for himself. We’ve been “open” for the past eleven years, but I am really struggling with jealousy. How can I better manage my insecurities so that it doesn’t impede his progress?
My husband and I have had an open marriage for the past twenty years, but I have only just started to date others. My husband recently questioned my sexual motives for seeking other connections, and asked me to look deeper. Am I superficial? Is sex really that different?
I just discovered that a man who I met on a short visit to see my family was actually married. How can I handle this situation? Should I even do anything?
“My husband want to swing together. He was in the lifestyle before we met and I always knew about it. So I promised him to try it. However, I’m having a really difficult time seeing him have sex with other girl. I am so jealous. And I don’t want to […]
“My [26F] friend [25F] and I don’t often meet up because our schedules often don’t line up. I usually try to make room for her in my schedule. To her credit, she also tries but is usually too tired after work. Despite this I still consider her a close friend […]
“My partner and I have been together for 15 years and married for 13. We opened up our marriage four years ago. She has been with several men and I have not been with other women other than threesomes that included my wife. I have attempted to date other women […]