My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. Due to the distance and the current global pandemic, it doesn’t look like we can close the gap anytime soon. In the meantime, I’ve been fantasizing about sleeping with other people, and feel like I am missing out on an opportunity experience the college sex life I dreamed of. What should I do? How can I talk about this with my boyfriend?
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I followed my fiance to a completely new state when he accepted a well-paying job. In the process, we had to sell our house, I had to quit my job, and postpone our wedding plans. I am having a lot of difficulty finding a job in my current field, and I feel completely lost in my new surrounding. How can I feel less trapped and isolated while still celebrating my fiance’s professional success?
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My boyfriend and I had an open relationship agreement while we were long distance for five months. He denied ever taking advantage of the five “free passes” during long distance. Two days after we closed the gap, he told me that he not only slept with one person but used up all five of his passes, breaking multiple rules during the process. How can we heal from this experience?
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“We [25F] [23M] are in a long distance relationship and about 3 months in while staying at his parents house for a week I walked in on him watching porn while he said he was packing for a trip. Ever since then I noticed a pattern of him watching porn […]
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/u/confusedandfurious writes on /r/relationship_advice… “My [25F] boyfriend [28M] “met” on /r/r4r. We’ve been talking all day every day for the past 2 months. Lots of FaceTime calls. He is visiting for the first time at the end of the month. We are in different states. He’s on the West Coast […]
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/u/pineapple1715 writes on /r/relationship_advice… “[She [34F] and I [24F]] were together for three years, lived together for two. We were amazing and everyone loved us together. We were so happy and she planned to propose and took me to try on rings 6 months ago. Due to immigration reasons I […]
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Anonymous writes… “I [25F] want to move to a big city sometime next year, because I want to change companies. Right now I live in a small city, and don’t like this company. I’ve been mostly single for a while now, and have interest in dating. But how would this […]
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/u/SelectStand on /r/relationships writes… “…They’ve been dating long distance for about 2 years and they live in the same state, but roughly 8 hours apart. He [21M] never talked about her [33F] voluntarily, and I [26M] never really pressed it. However, our friends and I enjoy conspiring about it out […]
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