I feel really scared that I’ll be tempted to cheat on my fiancee in the future. I hate that I might not be able to resist cheating in the future. How can I train myself to avoid this so that I can be the rock solid monogamous partner my fiancee deserves?
I feel so illogically insecure about my husband’s relationship with his relationship anarchist girlfriend, who recently moved out of her nesting partner’s home. How can I identify these feelings and subsequently process these feelings better?
My girlfriend and I have an open arrangement for while we are long distance. She recently expressed that while she likes that I am not the jealous type, she wishes that I was a bit more possessive about her. What can I do?
My wife and I opened our marriage up about a month ago. Over the first month, my wife slept with five men while I started developing a deeper connection to a close friend. When my wife found out, she started getting uncomfortable with me exploring other relationships. It feels so hypocritical. Am I in the wrong?
My wife and I are non-monogamous. She has been sleeping with someone new and I want to implement a rule that requires them to sleep at our home so that I can see what they’re doing. Is this ethical?
When my wife and I opened up our marriage, I found a good sexual connection with someone right away. I feel so insecure when I see him update his Tinder profile even though we are non-exclusive. How can I chill out?
My husband of fifteen years recently communicated to me that he too will like to date others to make new connections for himself. We’ve been “open” for the past eleven years, but I am really struggling with jealousy. How can I better manage my insecurities so that it doesn’t impede his progress?
I feel so anxious every time my boyfriend sleeps with another person. I really want to be ethically non-monogamous, but I hate being washed ashore by every little thing. How can I better manage my feelings?
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
“I have been together with my primary partner for 6 years now. Our relationship is super solid and we are still very much in love. He is not poly per se, more ‘open’ and only in love with me. I do struggle with feeling less special when he dates others. […]
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