Advice – He says he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship with me.
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
Advice – I feel very special when my secondary dates others, but not when my primary dates others.
“I have been together with my primary partner for 6 years now. Our relationship is super solid and we are still very much in love. He is not poly per se, more ‘open’ and only in love with me. I do struggle with feeling less special when he dates others. […]
Advice – Forbidding sleepovers.
Anonymous writes… “I have a situation that I’m unsure how to feel about and that makes it difficult to decide my actions. I’ve been married for ten years, we’ve been poly for not quite two years. During the first 1.5 years they dated and I did not, they never got […]
Advice – I don't feel free.
Anonymous writes… “My boyfriend [30M] and I [25F] have been together for 6 years. The corner stones of our relationship, from the start, were communication and freedom (to do and feel anything, as long as we talked about it). I consider us in an open relationship. In 6 years, we […]
Advice – Half in, half out of poly closet.
/u/sadiemess writes on /r/polyamory… “My husband [39M] and I [36F] had our 7 year wedding anniversary on Sunday and my gf [31F] of two years is upset about a post my mother-in-law tagged us in (with a pic from our wedding). It’s brought up feelings for her about being closeted, […]
Advice – I feel insecure about my boyfriend's past fling / friend.
/u/jdkman238 writes on /r/relationships… “I [25F] have been with Brad [27M] for about 6 months. We spend a ton of time together, and for the most part, I’m very happy with our relationship and see a future with him. The only thing that gives me pause is his relationship with […]
Advice – Difficult visit with partner and metamour.
/u/lbudhers writes on /r/polyamory… “I am not sure if this a rant, or a post seeking advice. I am in a long term, long distance poly relationship so it is challenging to find situations that are relatable and/or to get this off my chest without feeling judged. Most of my […]
Advice – His wife is struggling with jealousy.
/u/TheFlowerFarmer writes on /r/polyamory… “I’ve been seeing a guy on and off since summer. He and his wife started out as swingers and then started dating on their own. She quickly found a partner, he struggled. Our first date was amazing. We went out to a late dinner and didn’t […]
Advice – Polyamory under duress.
/u/Expensive-Macaroon writes on /r/polyamory… “I (early 30s, F – if that matters) can’t cope with my feelings at the moment and need some outside perspective. I’ll try to retell what’s going on first, then go into why my emotional life feels like a weirdly conceptualized rollercoaster right now. Thank you […]
Advice – My metamour feels insecure.
/u/thorulfheonar writes on /r/polyamory… “Ok so my wife and I have been poly for like 7-8 months. About a month ago I met this woman. She is incredible. Her and her husband are also poly. He has a girlfriend. My wife goes on dates with guys and girls all the […]
