I am new to the world of polyamory and I’m struggling to recognize and celebrate the success of our relationship without the relationship escalator. How can I get out of my own head about this monogamy programming?
Estimated reading time: 10 minutes
My wife and I both have other partners. But she seems to enjoy having sex with her other partners more than she does with me. Is this NRE? How can I address the growing resentment?
Estimated reading time: 11 minutes
I feel more strongly connected with my new partner – romantically, emotionally, and sexually. So when my wife asked me if I feel more for my partner, I honestly told her that I did. Am I wrong here? Am I wrong for liking one partner more than another?
Estimated reading time: 22 minutes
My wife and I opened our marriage up about a month ago. Over the first month, my wife slept with five men while I started developing a deeper connection to a close friend. When my wife found out, she started getting uncomfortable with me exploring other relationships. It feels so hypocritical. Am I in the wrong?
Estimated reading time: 15 minutes
My partner is planning on breaking up with my other partner in our triad. I’m struggling with the amount of emotional labor that lie ahead. How can I weather this storm for each of our partner? Should I break up with my other partner as well?
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
I have been dating my husband for almost two decades and my wife for a couple years. I’m starting to envision what it would be like for them to date each other. How can I make a triad happen?
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
Both my nesting partner and my boyfriend decided not to see anyone else other than me. As a polyamorous hinge to two monogamous partners, how can I make sure that I don’t burn out on my relationships?
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
I currently live with my partner with their polycule of five. One metamour is having a really difficult time with making and respecting the space I want to have with my partner. The conflict is making me scared to talk to my metamour. How can I manage my feelings in a more productive way for everyone?
Estimated reading time: 15 minutes
I keep having small fights and bouts with my partner’s other partners. My partner doesn’t think that he can date others without getting someone upset. How can I be a better metamour for his future partners?
Estimated reading time: 18 minutes
My husband and I opened up our relationship when he developed a crush for his coworker. Ever since then, his coworker/FWB has degraded the quality of my marriage. My tanking self-esteem is making it really hard for me to advocate for my own needs. How can I course-correct?
Estimated reading time: 15 minutes