This new year, I want to take some courses or even start my own business. When I told my husband, he got defensive and said that he didn’t think I should ever quit my job just because I didn’t feel fulfilled. We are both hurt. How can we get past this?
I feel more strongly connected with my new partner – romantically, emotionally, and sexually. So when my wife asked me if I feel more for my partner, I honestly told her that I did. Am I wrong here? Am I wrong for liking one partner more than another?
My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
Three months ago, I moved in with my two friends who happen to be a couple. One of my friend hooked up with me two weeks after I moved in and we all decided to be a polyamorous triad after a talk. Quarantine made things cool off with both of my partners. How can I advocate for my own needs in this triad relationship?
My primary partner slept with his girlfriend before I had an opportunity to meet her even though this was a preexisting agreement between us. I am angry with both of them. Am I the asshole for feeling upset?
My husband developed a really poor personal hygiene habits after he became unemployed. He thinks that his hygiene issues are really more of my OCD problems and refuses to address them. What can I do?
“We [25F] [23M] are in a long distance relationship and about 3 months in while staying at his parents house for a week I walked in on him watching porn while he said he was packing for a trip. Ever since then I noticed a pattern of him watching porn […]
“My [26F] partner [33F] and I have been together for 2.5 years. She is poly and has another partner [34M] and has been with him for 15 years. When I met her I fell for her hard and we just moved in together a few months ago. The problem: she […]
/u/PolyThrowAway0000001 writes on /r/polyamory… “There’s no easy way to say this, but I am no longer/infrequently interested sexually in my wife. This realization has weighed heavily on me, and I have nobody to share this with. We have been together for ten years. This feeling of little to no desire […]
/u/eldobhato_profil writes on /r/nonmonogamy… “My [29F] husband [28M] and I swapped with a couple [28F] [34M] last Saturday. Things went quite well initially, until we got down in the bedroom and my husband came a little earlier than he expected to. No worries, it happens, we thought. I checked in […]
Tea Time with Tomato 