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Advice – Lost desire for my wife.

/u/PolyThrowAway0000001 writes on /r/polyamory… “There’s no easy way to say this, but I am no longer/infrequently interested sexually in my wife. This realization has weighed heavily on me, and I have nobody to share this with. We have been together for ten years. This feeling of little to no desire […]

Advice – Swap went south.

/u/eldobhato_profil writes on /r/nonmonogamy… “My [29F] husband [28M] and I swapped with a couple [28F] [34M] last Saturday. Things went quite well initially, until we got down in the bedroom and my husband came a little earlier than he expected to. No worries, it happens, we thought. I checked in […]

Advice – Polyamory under duress.

/u/Expensive-Macaroon writes on /r/polyamory… “I (early 30s, F – if that matters) can’t cope with my feelings at the moment and need some outside perspective. I’ll try to retell what’s going on first, then go into why my emotional life feels like a weirdly conceptualized rollercoaster right now. Thank you […]

Advice – My wife settled for me.

/u/StalinsLargeStache on /r/relationship asks… “I [34M] should start off by saying that I love my wife [31F] to death, we’ve been together 5 years and I would truly do anything for her. However, I’ve always felt like I put much more into the relationship than she does (dates, sex, affection, […]

Advice – Blowup over condom.

/u/tryingmybest101 on /r/polyamory writes… “Last night I came home to a homemade dinner from my wife, we’ve both been really busy and she usually gets in much later than I do so it meant a lot to me. I went upstairs to change and noticed that there was a condom […]