Advice – How to define cheating in the context of non-monogamous relationships.
My monogamous boyfriend made out with my monogamous metamour in a state of inebriation. I feel so confused and betrayed. Is this considered cheating?
Advice – How do I get started with non-monogamy?
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
Advice – My partner keeps on stonewalling me.
“I’ve noticed that my partner [32M] tends to stonewall. He becomes so irritated and angry that I [26F] feel completely helpless. We’ve been together nearly 5 years. Most recently, on my birthday a few days ago, we were enjoying time with our friends at our house. We agreed that he […]
Advice – Torn between new and old flames.
“I recently reconnected with my first girlfriend [27F] from 13 years ago. We dated on an off throughout high school and had a few “flings” while I was in college. Nothing really ever stuck but I’ve always had this lingering feeling that she was the love of my life. She […]
Advice – How do I NOT breakup?
/u/isnotalwaysrainbows writes on /r/relationship_advice… “Hello! Sorry for the formatting, I’m [23F] always on mobile. I’ve posted on relationships before, but every time it’s been about a relationship that hasn’t worked out. Which brings me to this issue that I have. I always break up with people. I wasn’t super popular […]
Advice – Words for a poly newbie.
/u/TheAudity writes on /r/polyamory… “Hello everyone! I guess I should start by talking about my situation: I [26F] recently married an incredible person [26M] (we’ve been married for about a month now), and am lucky enough to have an incredible husband who is very open and actually like, talks about […]
Advice – My drunk friend touched my girlfriend.
Anonymous writes… “I [26M] saw a mutual friend, who was drunk, grab my girlfriends [27F] breasts. She slapped him lightly across the cheek, but I can’t help feeling mad about it. They have been flirting before I met either of them, but stopped it because she felt they weren’t compatible. […]
Advice – Found a condom wrapper.
Anonymous writes… “Yesterday night I went over to my dude’s place for a homemade steak dinner. Awesome, right? Little wine, some noms, 5 mins into The Mandalorian until we finish our food and race into his room to make sweet love, since we hadn’t in at least 2 weeks. It […]
Advice – I am getting mixed signals.
/u/uglysonics write on /r/polyamory… “So I’ve been speaking to this guy who has a partner, and his partner has a partner (though I suspect all three of them may be involved, doesn’t really matter) and he said he wanted to expand, he didn’t want someone to just sleep with outside […]
Story Time – How does poly make you feel more connected in your LTR?
/u/Seenoshadows asks on /r/polyamory… “I have searched in many places and either my google searching skills aren’t that good or what but I can’t seem to find the answer to the following question. As I’ve explored polyamory and all it entails, Ive consistently read that polyamory brings you and your […]
