My primary partner and I have been in an open relationship for the past five years. But there is a particular secondary partner that I feel really insecure about. I feel so confused and sad when he drops off even though I know this isn’t a serious thing.
My wife and I both have other partners. But she seems to enjoy having sex with her other partners more than she does with me. Is this NRE? How can I address the growing resentment?
My nesting partner and I are dating a couple together. Recently, I realized that all of our scheduling revolves around the other couple. There are kids and jobs and logistics to consider. How can I address my hurt in a non-confrontational way?
About four years ago, I webcammed for a couple months. I am really scared that my boyfriend will find out about my sex work experience from a video or a picture that might be posted online without my consent. Should I even tell him?
My partner and I met up to do a full swap with another couple, and I couldn’t rise to the occasion. I feel so angry with myself and I am worried that I soured the entire experience. How can we get past this?
My wife and I recently opened up with an agreement that we don’t talk directly with each other’s dates. But how can we make sure that the women I’m dating can trust that we are in an honest and consensual open marriage?
I recently started dating a man who on paper seems like the perfect partner. Mostly things are going okay. But I’m just not feeling it. I get anxious about discussing the future and have trouble being vulnerable around him. Should I break up?
My husband and I opened up about two years ago as a hotwife. Over those two years, it was all about me dating others. But my husband started dating recently, and I have been experiencing intense jealousy and sadness while he is on his solo dates. I recognize that this is hypocritical. Should I just suck it up?
After my relationship with my ex-girlfriend of four years ended, I found myself sleeping with a couple out of impulse. Things really appear to be going well, but I feel so overwhelmed by the feelings that appear to be reciprocated from the woman-half of the couple. What should I do?
I connected with a friend of my partner’s. When I told my partner that we chatted on Facebook, she got really hurt and upset. What did I do wrong? Am I the asshole?
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