DADT – Tea Time with Tomato

Advice – How can I verify my open status while I am on dates?

My wife and I recently opened up with an agreement that we don’t talk directly with each other’s dates. But how can we make sure that the women I’m dating can trust that we are in an honest and consensual open marriage?

Estimated reading time: 7 minutes

Advice – My partner is dating someone who is in a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell arrangement.

My girlfriend recently got involved with someone who has a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell policy with his wife. Even though my partner and I’ve never had a DADT agreement, my meta is enforcing a DADT through my partner and refusing to engage with me on any level. I feel like I’m going crazy.

Estimated reading time: 15 minutes