My boyfriend was invited to a weekend couple’s getaway trip with some of his old friends from his frat days. I declined because I am paranoid about the COVID transmission risks. I feel so uncomfortable with the number of people who’ll be at this event for the entire weekend. Should have I asked him not to go?
My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
Three months ago, I moved in with my two friends who happen to be a couple. One of my friend hooked up with me two weeks after I moved in and we all decided to be a polyamorous triad after a talk. Quarantine made things cool off with both of my partners. How can I advocate for my own needs in this triad relationship?