My girlfriend sometimes shares positive polyamory memes and visits poly-friendly platforms, even though she has consistently reassured me that we are in an exclusive relationship. I just don’t feel reassured, especially as it pertains to her bisexuality. Is she closeted about her polyamorous identity?
Estimated reading time: 14 minutes
My husband was very much against opening up our marriage two years ago, but I finally convinced him when I started dating my coworker. My husband even found a girlfriend for himself a year ago. Last month, my boyfriend broke up with me and I’m no longer into the idea of the open marriage. What should I do?
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
When my current girlfriend and I took a break a couple years ago, I slept with new partners. After we got back together, we never talked about who we slept with. Recently, I realized we never had that conversation about our sex life during the break when she incorrectly guessed the number of people I’ve slept with during a game. Should I tell her that I slept with other people during our break couple years ago?
Estimated reading time: 10 minutes
My best friend recently divorced his husband and moved across the country to pursue a new job and life. I was very close with both my best friend and his husband before the separation/divorce, and was even the maid of honor at their wedding. Is it okay for me to contact my best friend’s ex husband and offer my condolences & support?
Estimated reading time: 5 minutes
My partner and I have been dating for a few years, non-monogamous from the start. She connected with a stable secondary partner of two months recently, but this is the first time any of us had a stable connection outside of ours. We disagree on who we should spend the holidays with. Am I being too selfish?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes
My boyfriend was invited to a weekend couple’s getaway trip with some of his old friends from his frat days. I declined because I am paranoid about the COVID transmission risks. I feel so uncomfortable with the number of people who’ll be at this event for the entire weekend. Should have I asked him not to go?
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
I feel really scared that I’ll be tempted to cheat on my fiancee in the future. I hate that I might not be able to resist cheating in the future. How can I train myself to avoid this so that I can be the rock solid monogamous partner my fiancee deserves?
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
I communicated with my current boyfriend early on that I will not be in a romantic relationship with someone who isn’t out to everyone in his life, and thus cannot properly do poly relationships. Over a miscommunication, I found out he wasn’t as out as he said he was. Am I making too much out of this disconnect?
Estimated reading time: 17 minutes
I feel more strongly connected with my new partner – romantically, emotionally, and sexually. So when my wife asked me if I feel more for my partner, I honestly told her that I did. Am I wrong here? Am I wrong for liking one partner more than another?
Estimated reading time: 22 minutes
My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
Estimated reading time: 17 minutes