Advice – How do I have better sex? (NSFW)
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?
Advice – I met someone while on a break with my partner. How can I initiate opening the relationship?
I matched with someone while I was on a break with my ex who at the time wanted an open relationship. I got back together with my ex while my new match was out of town. How do I initiate the discussions on opening up on our relationship?
Advice – Prioritization in polyamorous relationships.
My polyamorous relationship has grown and changed a lot in the past five years. But I am struggling to feel prioritized in my relationship even though it is by default non-hierarchical. Is this a problem that I need to focus on? How can I manage these feelings of insecurity?
Advice – What is the common etiquette regarding open phone policies?
My wife and I have an open phone policy where we can read each other’s text conversations at will. It is making me feel uncomfortable because my new partner shared something vulnerable with me that I don’t think she would want my wife to read. Is this normal for other poly couples as well?
Advice – My husband will not take care of himself.
My husband developed a really poor personal hygiene habits after he became unemployed. He thinks that his hygiene issues are really more of my OCD problems and refuses to address them. What can I do?
Advice – He says he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship with me.
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
Advice – My partner keeps on stonewalling me.
“I’ve noticed that my partner [32M] tends to stonewall. He becomes so irritated and angry that I [26F] feel completely helpless. We’ve been together nearly 5 years. Most recently, on my birthday a few days ago, we were enjoying time with our friends at our house. We agreed that he […]
Advice – My partner keeps on throwing tamper tantrums.
“My [26F] partner [33F] and I have been together for 2.5 years. She is poly and has another partner [34M] and has been with him for 15 years. When I met her I fell for her hard and we just moved in together a few months ago. The problem: she […]
Advice – Should I bounce?
/u/SufficientJury8 writes on /r/polyamory… “I’ve been with my partner for a year. We hit it off quickly, and are both very in love. The partner and my meta are going through a very rough patch. Both have talked about divorce recently. Meta and I get along great. Above and beyond […]
Advice – Half in, half out of poly closet.
/u/sadiemess writes on /r/polyamory… “My husband [39M] and I [36F] had our 7 year wedding anniversary on Sunday and my gf [31F] of two years is upset about a post my mother-in-law tagged us in (with a pic from our wedding). It’s brought up feelings for her about being closeted, […]
