My partner and I have recently discussed opening up. After a lot of heated discussion, we have finally come to an understanding to only seek threesomes with specific rules. How can I regulate my emotions? What kind of tips and advice can you provide for facilitating threesomes?
I feel so embarrassed when I vent to my girlfriend. And then I feel guilty when my girlfriend does provide emotional support. How can I get better at communicating?
My metamour recently established a boundary that I am no longer welcome in their shared house, following our first vacation together. My boyfriend and I are both stumped on how to manage this. How can I feel compersion toward my boyfriend’s marriage again?
My husband of fifteen years recently communicated to me that he too will like to date others to make new connections for himself. We’ve been “open” for the past eleven years, but I am really struggling with jealousy. How can I better manage my insecurities so that it doesn’t impede his progress?
I recently ended things with one partner because my metamour made the relationship with our shared partner impossible to maintain. And now my other partner is interested in pursuing a relationship with my former metamour. I am feeling so incredibly jealous and insecure about their budding connection. How can I better manage my feelings?
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?
I matched with someone while I was on a break with my ex who at the time wanted an open relationship. I got back together with my ex while my new match was out of town. How do I initiate the discussions on opening up on our relationship?
My polyamorous relationship has grown and changed a lot in the past five years. But I am struggling to feel prioritized in my relationship even though it is by default non-hierarchical. Is this a problem that I need to focus on? How can I manage these feelings of insecurity?
My wife and I have an open phone policy where we can read each other’s text conversations at will. It is making me feel uncomfortable because my new partner shared something vulnerable with me that I don’t think she would want my wife to read. Is this normal for other poly couples as well?
My husband developed a really poor personal hygiene habits after he became unemployed. He thinks that his hygiene issues are really more of my OCD problems and refuses to address them. What can I do?
