I feel really scared that I’ll be tempted to cheat on my fiancee in the future. I hate that I might not be able to resist cheating in the future. How can I train myself to avoid this so that I can be the rock solid monogamous partner my fiancee deserves?
I communicated with my current boyfriend early on that I will not be in a romantic relationship with someone who isn’t out to everyone in his life, and thus cannot properly do poly relationships. Over a miscommunication, I found out he wasn’t as out as he said he was. Am I making too much out of this disconnect?
I feel more strongly connected with my new partner – romantically, emotionally, and sexually. So when my wife asked me if I feel more for my partner, I honestly told her that I did. Am I wrong here? Am I wrong for liking one partner more than another?
My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
My partner and I have recently discussed opening up. After a lot of heated discussion, we have finally come to an understanding to only seek threesomes with specific rules. How can I regulate my emotions? What kind of tips and advice can you provide for facilitating threesomes?
I feel so embarrassed when I vent to my girlfriend. And then I feel guilty when my girlfriend does provide emotional support. How can I get better at communicating?
My metamour recently established a boundary that I am no longer welcome in their shared house, following our first vacation together. My boyfriend and I are both stumped on how to manage this. How can I feel compersion toward my boyfriend’s marriage again?
My husband of fifteen years recently communicated to me that he too will like to date others to make new connections for himself. We’ve been “open” for the past eleven years, but I am really struggling with jealousy. How can I better manage my insecurities so that it doesn’t impede his progress?
I recently ended things with one partner because my metamour made the relationship with our shared partner impossible to maintain. And now my other partner is interested in pursuing a relationship with my former metamour. I am feeling so incredibly jealous and insecure about their budding connection. How can I better manage my feelings?
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?