My primary partner slept with his girlfriend before I had an opportunity to meet her even though this was a preexisting agreement between us. I am angry with both of them. Am I the asshole for feeling upset?
My wife and I have an open phone policy where we can read each other’s text conversations at will. It is making me feel uncomfortable because my new partner shared something vulnerable with me that I don’t think she would want my wife to read. Is this normal for other poly couples as well?
“My [26F] partner [33F] and I have been together for 2.5 years. She is poly and has another partner [34M] and has been with him for 15 years. When I met her I fell for her hard and we just moved in together a few months ago. The problem: she […]
/u/zmeyka_ writes on /r/polyamory… “My partner H and I have been open for a few years. I had a casual relationship with someone for two years with no issues that ended a year ago. Recently H started dating someone he met and they have been hanging out once or twice […]
/u/thelonepill writes on /r/polyamory… “I was in a relationship with C, during which we lived together and planned to move in officially. We had always been explicit about wanting a poly dynamic where we can love other people too. I really fucking love this person, I could see myself growing […]
[TW: mentions of self-harm, ideation.] Anonymous writes… “… So my primary partner is my fiance [22M] of 4 years and my secondary is my boyfriend [37M] who has been one of my closest friends for over a year and a half. I’d almost say he’s my one of my best […]
/u/ThrowRA87206 on /r/relationship_advice writes… “First let me start by saying this is partly a problem because of other problems in our (wife [25F] and I [27M], any more plurals will be us) relationship but that is for another discussion that we are already in therapy for. we have talked to […]
/u/ThrowRA538362 on /r/relationship_advice writes… “I [23M] was over at my best friend’s [22M] house. Him and his girlfriend [20F] live together and she wasn’t home because she had gone out with some of her friends. It was just me and him in the living room, we were just sitting on […]
[This post is a second part of a previous column post Oct 17th] In our last look at positive masculinity, we looked at possible positive male role models and what we can learn from them. Our discussions extended to not just role models who are male, but also role models […]
/u/aurorapenguin on /r/polyamory writes… “…My partner [33M] and me [27F] have been in a polyamorous relationship for 4-5 months. However, he struggles with letting me know about dates on time and I struggle with his lack of structure. For instance, he texts me today at work that he will meet […]