A friend of my boyfriend came into town who he hasn’t seen in a long time. But things got really weird when they started being intimate with each other even though we are in a monogamous relationship. Am I being paranoid about feeling weirded out?
I communicated with my current boyfriend early on that I will not be in a romantic relationship with someone who isn’t out to everyone in his life, and thus cannot properly do poly relationships. Over a miscommunication, I found out he wasn’t as out as he said he was. Am I making too much out of this disconnect?
My nesting partner keeps on disregarding my own personal boundary and the current stay-at-home orders to go see her other partners. I feel like she prioritizes cuddling and having sex with her other partners over my currently immunocompromised health. What should I do?
My primary partner slept with his girlfriend before I had an opportunity to meet her even though this was a preexisting agreement between us. I am angry with both of them. Am I the asshole for feeling upset?
My wife and I have an open phone policy where we can read each other’s text conversations at will. It is making me feel uncomfortable because my new partner shared something vulnerable with me that I don’t think she would want my wife to read. Is this normal for other poly couples as well?
“My [26F] partner [33F] and I have been together for 2.5 years. She is poly and has another partner [34M] and has been with him for 15 years. When I met her I fell for her hard and we just moved in together a few months ago. The problem: she […]
/u/zmeyka_ writes on /r/polyamory… “My partner H and I have been open for a few years. I had a casual relationship with someone for two years with no issues that ended a year ago. Recently H started dating someone he met and they have been hanging out once or twice […]
/u/thelonepill writes on /r/polyamory… “I was in a relationship with C, during which we lived together and planned to move in officially. We had always been explicit about wanting a poly dynamic where we can love other people too. I really fucking love this person, I could see myself growing […]
[TW: mentions of self-harm, ideation.] Anonymous writes… “… So my primary partner is my fiance [22M] of 4 years and my secondary is my boyfriend [37M] who has been one of my closest friends for over a year and a half. I’d almost say he’s my one of my best […]
/u/ThrowRA87206 on /r/relationship_advice writes… “First let me start by saying this is partly a problem because of other problems in our (wife [25F] and I [27M], any more plurals will be us) relationship but that is for another discussion that we are already in therapy for. we have talked to […]
