After fourteen years together with my husband, I am starting to get really depressed thinking about how he will be the only person I have sex with until I die. We briefly talked about non-monogamy, but he is unwilling to experiment. How do I deal with the struggle with monogamy? How can I stay content with my husband?
Estimated reading time: 15 minutes
My best friend recently divorced his husband and moved across the country to pursue a new job and life. I was very close with both my best friend and his husband before the separation/divorce, and was even the maid of honor at their wedding. Is it okay for me to contact my best friend’s ex husband and offer my condolences & support?
Estimated reading time: 5 minutes
My partner and I have been dating for a few years, non-monogamous from the start. She connected with a stable secondary partner of two months recently, but this is the first time any of us had a stable connection outside of ours. We disagree on who we should spend the holidays with. Am I being too selfish?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes
After my relationship with my ex-girlfriend of four years ended, I found myself sleeping with a couple out of impulse. Things really appear to be going well, but I feel so overwhelmed by the feelings that appear to be reciprocated from the woman-half of the couple. What should I do?
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
My boyfriend was invited to a weekend couple’s getaway trip with some of his old friends from his frat days. I declined because I am paranoid about the COVID transmission risks. I feel so uncomfortable with the number of people who’ll be at this event for the entire weekend. Should have I asked him not to go?
Estimated reading time: 8 minutes
My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. Due to the distance and the current global pandemic, it doesn’t look like we can close the gap anytime soon. In the meantime, I’ve been fantasizing about sleeping with other people, and feel like I am missing out on an opportunity experience the college sex life I dreamed of. What should I do? How can I talk about this with my boyfriend?
Estimated reading time: 15 minutes
My wife has been seeing a person for the last couple months. Recently, she found out that he and his partner are in the middle of their separation / divorce process. My wife and I have a standing agreement that we would stop dating if that were to happen to us. Is it normal for them to keep dating?
Estimated reading time: 6 minutes
I connected with a friend of my partner’s. When I told my partner that we chatted on Facebook, she got really hurt and upset. What did I do wrong? Am I the asshole?
Estimated reading time: 10 minutes
My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he felt deeply uncomfortable with the close connection I have with one of my professional colleagues. While I do talk to my friend closely, there has never been anything romantic or sexual between us. Despite this, my ex accused me of cheating on him emotionally with my friend. Did I cheat on him? How can I get over his judgment?
Estimated reading time: 12 minutes
My father passed away about two years ago. And my family and friends keep commenting about how much I look like him. I am ready to move on, but these constant reminders make it difficult to move on. How can I tell my family to stop without hurting them?
Estimated reading time: 7 minutes