My partner is planning on breaking up with my other partner in our triad. I’m struggling with the amount of emotional labor that lie ahead. How can I weather this storm for each of our partner? Should I break up with my other partner as well?
I have been dating my husband for almost two decades and my wife for a couple years. I’m starting to envision what it would be like for them to date each other. How can I make a triad happen?
My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
My partner got really upset when he discovered that I earned tips from my part-time job. He claims that it is our money to spend, not my own. He constantly asks me where I am spending money. Is he controlling or am I being irrational?
Two weeks ago, my husband quickly developed a connection with a woman he met. He realized he was polyamorous and communicated as such. But he is going way too fast for my own comfort. How can I properly communicate my discomfort?
Both my nesting partner and my boyfriend decided not to see anyone else other than me. As a polyamorous hinge to two monogamous partners, how can I make sure that I don’t burn out on my relationships?
My boyfriend and I stopped using contraceptives over the past two years. I found out three weeks ago that I am pregnant, and my boyfriend is not happy. He threatened that I will not be allowed to carry this baby to term. I feel trapped. What can I do?
My spouse and I have hit a very turbulent stretch in our relationship following a very traumatic experience. My spouse is in denial about the degree of betrayal in his boundary violations, and cannot take responsibility to heal and recover. How can I salvage this relationship? Is this even salvageable?
My boyfriend and I had an open relationship agreement while we were long distance for five months. He denied ever taking advantage of the five “free passes” during long distance. Two days after we closed the gap, he told me that he not only slept with one person but used up all five of his passes, breaking multiple rules during the process. How can we heal from this experience?
My dog has severe separation anxiety to the point that he wets himself when I’m not around. My boyfriend recently told me this is causing significant emotional distress for him and even suggested he might have to live elsewhere if I keep leaving him with the dog. Where do I go from here?
