My husband started dating someone new about a year ago. At first, I was really happy to see my husband be happy. But when she moved in a couple months ago, I started noticing a couple warning signs. I feel so lost and exhausted about how to approach this with my husband. Am I just overreacting?
My girlfriend sometimes shares positive polyamory memes and visits poly-friendly platforms, even though she has consistently reassured me that we are in an exclusive relationship. I just don’t feel reassured, especially as it pertains to her bisexuality. Is she closeted about her polyamorous identity?
My husband was very much against opening up our marriage two years ago, but I finally convinced him when I started dating my coworker. My husband even found a girlfriend for himself a year ago. Last month, my boyfriend broke up with me and I’m no longer into the idea of the open marriage. What should I do?
When my current girlfriend and I took a break a couple years ago, I slept with new partners. After we got back together, we never talked about who we slept with. Recently, I realized we never had that conversation about our sex life during the break when she incorrectly guessed the number of people I’ve slept with during a game. Should I tell her that I slept with other people during our break couple years ago?
After fourteen years together with my husband, I am starting to get really depressed thinking about how he will be the only person I have sex with until I die. We briefly talked about non-monogamy, but he is unwilling to experiment. How do I deal with the struggle with monogamy? How can I stay content with my husband?
My best friend recently divorced his husband and moved across the country to pursue a new job and life. I was very close with both my best friend and his husband before the separation/divorce, and was even the maid of honor at their wedding. Is it okay for me to contact my best friend’s ex husband and offer my condolences & support?
My partner and I have been dating for a few years, non-monogamous from the start. She connected with a stable secondary partner of two months recently, but this is the first time any of us had a stable connection outside of ours. We disagree on who we should spend the holidays with. Am I being too selfish?
After my relationship with my ex-girlfriend of four years ended, I found myself sleeping with a couple out of impulse. Things really appear to be going well, but I feel so overwhelmed by the feelings that appear to be reciprocated from the woman-half of the couple. What should I do?
My boyfriend was invited to a weekend couple’s getaway trip with some of his old friends from his frat days. I declined because I am paranoid about the COVID transmission risks. I feel so uncomfortable with the number of people who’ll be at this event for the entire weekend. Should have I asked him not to go?
My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. Due to the distance and the current global pandemic, it doesn’t look like we can close the gap anytime soon. In the meantime, I’ve been fantasizing about sleeping with other people, and feel like I am missing out on an opportunity experience the college sex life I dreamed of. What should I do? How can I talk about this with my boyfriend?
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