Menu Home

Advice – Too much on my plate.

“My current poly situation: 31F with multiple separate and distinct partners (each heterosexual males with no interest in meeting each other, two new relationships within the last few weeks, one long-term partner who I was monogamous with first before breaking up and getting back together as poly). My problem: Time […]

Advice – My NP keeps on outing me.

Anonymous writes… “My NP loves to talk about sex. He’s embarrassed me repeatedly by sharing my likes/dislikes despite my repeated requests to stop. For some reason I thought he could keep his mouth shut about us being non-monogamous, but I did think enough to include it in our list of […]

Advice – Forbidding sleepovers.

Anonymous writes… “I have a situation that I’m unsure how to feel about and that makes it difficult to decide my actions. I’ve been married for ten years, we’ve been poly for not quite two years. During the first 1.5 years they dated and I did not, they never got […]

Advice – Lost desire for my wife.

/u/PolyThrowAway0000001 writes on /r/polyamory… “There’s no easy way to say this, but I am no longer/infrequently interested sexually in my wife. This realization has weighed heavily on me, and I have nobody to share this with. We have been together for ten years. This feeling of little to no desire […]