My boyfriend and I are planning to live together in about a year, and he asked me that when we move in, I have to stop receiving any and all financial support from my parents. We were raised in a completely different financial upbringing. And I’m not sure if this is a reasonable ultimatum. Is it normal to merge your finances when you move in together?
I met someone about two months ago who was only going to be in town temporarily before he moves away. In those past two months, I had just the best time with the most respectful and kind person I’ve ever had a chance to connect with. Now that he has moved away, my heart yearns and aches for him. How can I move on? What if he was the one?
My partner is being abused by my metamour. While I am trying to do my best to maintain boundaries at places I can control, my partner keeps on going back to their abuser, perpetuating the cycle of abuse onto themself and indirectly to me. What can I do to protect myself and my partner?
My girlfriend and I have an open arrangement for while we are long distance. She recently expressed that while she likes that I am not the jealous type, she wishes that I was a bit more possessive about her. What can I do?
My wife and I opened our marriage up about a month ago. Over the first month, my wife slept with five men while I started developing a deeper connection to a close friend. When my wife found out, she started getting uncomfortable with me exploring other relationships. It feels so hypocritical. Am I in the wrong?
I lost my grandma two days ago. My boyfriend is refusing (or is unable) to be my support in this difficult time. Instead, he seems fixated on connecting more with his weed than helping me through this grief process. Instead, he is upset with me for how I treated him this past weekend. Am I overreacting?
My partner is planning on breaking up with my other partner in our triad. I’m struggling with the amount of emotional labor that lie ahead. How can I weather this storm for each of our partner? Should I break up with my other partner as well?
I have been dating my husband for almost two decades and my wife for a couple years. I’m starting to envision what it would be like for them to date each other. How can I make a triad happen?
My partner and my metamour decided that I should not be a part of the polycule trip that we’ve been talking about. I feel like I was tossed to the side even though I understand their reasoning. Am I overthinking and assessing this situation? What can I do?
My partner got really upset when he discovered that I earned tips from my part-time job. He claims that it is our money to spend, not my own. He constantly asks me where I am spending money. Is he controlling or am I being irrational?