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Advice – How do you stand monogamy?

After fourteen years together with my husband, I am starting to get really depressed thinking about how he will be the only person I have sex with until I die. We briefly talked about non-monogamy, but he is unwilling to experiment. How do I deal with the struggle with monogamy? How can I stay content with my husband?

Advice – In a long distance relationship, fantasizing about strangers.

My boyfriend and I are currently long distance. Due to the distance and the current global pandemic, it doesn’t look like we can close the gap anytime soon. In the meantime, I’ve been fantasizing about sleeping with other people, and feel like I am missing out on an opportunity experience the college sex life I dreamed of. What should I do? How can I talk about this with my boyfriend?

Advice – What is considered emotional affair?

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me because he felt deeply uncomfortable with the close connection I have with one of my professional colleagues. While I do talk to my friend closely, there has never been anything romantic or sexual between us. Despite this, my ex accused me of cheating on him emotionally with my friend. Did I cheat on him? How can I get over his judgment?