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Advice – I regret relocating with my fiance.

I followed my fiance to a completely new state when he accepted a well-paying job. In the process, we had to sell our house, I had to quit my job, and postpone our wedding plans. I am having a lot of difficulty finding a job in my current field, and I feel completely lost in my new surrounding. How can I feel less trapped and isolated while still celebrating my fiance’s professional success?

Advice – My boyfriend gave me an ultimatum.

My boyfriend and I are planning to live together in about a year, and he asked me that when we move in, I have to stop receiving any and all financial support from my parents. We were raised in a completely different financial upbringing. And I’m not sure if this is a reasonable ultimatum. Is it normal to merge your finances when you move in together?