Advice – I want to try anal, but cannot relax. [NSFW]
My fiance has always loved my ass. We’ve been trying to have more anal sex, but I am having a lot of difficulty relaxing through all the stimulation. What can I do to try and ease the process?
Advice – How can we address couple’s privilege in a quad?
My nesting partner and I are dating a couple together. Recently, I realized that all of our scheduling revolves around the other couple. There are kids and jobs and logistics to consider. How can I address my hurt in a non-confrontational way?
Advice – I used to be a cam girl. Should I tell my boyfriend?
About four years ago, I webcammed for a couple months. I am really scared that my boyfriend will find out about my sex work experience from a video or a picture that might be posted online without my consent. Should I even tell him?
Advice – I just tested positive for chlamydia. Did my boyfriend cheat?
On a routine STI screening, I recently tested positive for chlamydia even though I tested negative two months ago. Does this mean that my boyfriend has definitively cheated on me?
Advice – Our full-swap went wrong [NSFW].
My partner and I met up to do a full swap with another couple, and I couldn’t rise to the occasion. I feel so angry with myself and I am worried that I soured the entire experience. How can we get past this?
Advice – How can I learn to heal after a breakup?
My boyfriend and I have mutually decided to split after the lockdown orders end. While I can see that we are ending our relationship for the right reasons, I can’t help but think that we could still be together. How can I reconcile with myself?
Advice – How can I verify my open status while I am on dates?
My wife and I recently opened up with an agreement that we don’t talk directly with each other’s dates. But how can we make sure that the women I’m dating can trust that we are in an honest and consensual open marriage?
Advice – My friend declared that she is polyamorous, revealed an affair, and then moved out.
“I just discovered that a married couple I’m close to is going through a separation. Over time, I discovered that she forced polyamory upon her husband, and was the eventual cause to the breakup. How can I hold her accountable without alienating her?”
Advice – I have no idea how to date.
I recently started dating a man who on paper seems like the perfect partner. Mostly things are going okay. But I’m just not feeling it. I get anxious about discussing the future and have trouble being vulnerable around him. Should I break up?
Advice – Dad hired a female sex worker for me even though he knew I was a gay man [NSFW].
I came out to my parents as gay about a year ago. But a week ago, my dad hired a female sex worker for me. I felt so embarrassed and awkward initially, but ended up having a good time anyway. Now my dad thinks I’m straight. Is he right?
