My spouse and I have hit a very turbulent stretch in our relationship following a very traumatic experience. My spouse is in denial about the degree of betrayal in his boundary violations, and cannot take responsibility to heal and recover. How can I salvage this relationship? Is this even salvageable?
My boyfriend and I had an open relationship agreement while we were long distance for five months. He denied ever taking advantage of the five “free passes” during long distance. Two days after we closed the gap, he told me that he not only slept with one person but used up all five of his passes, breaking multiple rules during the process. How can we heal from this experience?
My dog has severe separation anxiety to the point that he wets himself when I’m not around. My boyfriend recently told me this is causing significant emotional distress for him and even suggested he might have to live elsewhere if I keep leaving him with the dog. Where do I go from here?
I currently live with my partner with their polycule of five. One metamour is having a really difficult time with making and respecting the space I want to have with my partner. The conflict is making me scared to talk to my metamour. How can I manage my feelings in a more productive way for everyone?
My wife and I are non-monogamous. She has been sleeping with someone new and I want to implement a rule that requires them to sleep at our home so that I can see what they’re doing. Is this ethical?
When my wife and I opened up our marriage, I found a good sexual connection with someone right away. I feel so insecure when I see him update his Tinder profile even though we are non-exclusive. How can I chill out?
Three months ago, I moved in with my two friends who happen to be a couple. One of my friend hooked up with me two weeks after I moved in and we all decided to be a polyamorous triad after a talk. Quarantine made things cool off with both of my partners. How can I advocate for my own needs in this triad relationship?
My partner and I have recently discussed opening up. After a lot of heated discussion, we have finally come to an understanding to only seek threesomes with specific rules. How can I regulate my emotions? What kind of tips and advice can you provide for facilitating threesomes?
My girlfriend recently got involved with someone who has a Don’t Ask Don’t Tell policy with his wife. Even though my partner and I’ve never had a DADT agreement, my meta is enforcing a DADT through my partner and refusing to engage with me on any level. I feel like I’m going crazy.
I want to be in a polyfidelitous relationship with my partner. But I can’t look past the negative criticism against poly-fi relationships, especially online. Is poly-fi even viable? How can we ethically look for our third?