Stress makes my girlfriend horny. It hasn’t been an issue in the past when she has been stressed out about her school, family, or work. But now that we’re hitting bumps in our relationship, I am really struggling because stress kills my libido. What can I do?
My primary partner and I have been in an open relationship for the past five years. But there is a particular secondary partner that I feel really insecure about. I feel so confused and sad when he drops off even though I know this isn’t a serious thing.
My friend might have misread my intention when I opened up to him about being polyamorous. He kept on insinuating that I was the one coming onto him, even though I told him I was never interested. I am so confused on how to deal with this.
My husband and I opened up recently. He doesn’t really want to date, but is okay with me dating others. As I’ve made new connections and started talking to new people, I’m decidedly unsure how much I should talk about my other connections with my husband. How much should I share?
I am new to the world of polyamory and I’m struggling to recognize and celebrate the success of our relationship without the relationship escalator. How can I get out of my own head about this monogamy programming?
My wife and I both have other partners. But she seems to enjoy having sex with her other partners more than she does with me. Is this NRE? How can I address the growing resentment?
My fiance has always loved my ass. We’ve been trying to have more anal sex, but I am having a lot of difficulty relaxing through all the stimulation. What can I do to try and ease the process?
My nesting partner and I are dating a couple together. Recently, I realized that all of our scheduling revolves around the other couple. There are kids and jobs and logistics to consider. How can I address my hurt in a non-confrontational way?
About four years ago, I webcammed for a couple months. I am really scared that my boyfriend will find out about my sex work experience from a video or a picture that might be posted online without my consent. Should I even tell him?
On a routine STI screening, I recently tested positive for chlamydia even though I tested negative two months ago. Does this mean that my boyfriend has definitively cheated on me?
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