Advice – How can I suck better? (NSFW)
I really want to be able to deepthroat my husband. How can I defeat my gag reflex?
Advice – My nesting partner keeps on going out to meet new partners despite the stay-at-home orders.
My nesting partner keeps on disregarding my own personal boundary and the current stay-at-home orders to go see her other partners. I feel like she prioritizes cuddling and having sex with her other partners over my currently immunocompromised health. What should I do?
Advice – My metamour hates me. How can I feel compersion again?
My metamour recently established a boundary that I am no longer welcome in their shared house, following our first vacation together. My boyfriend and I are both stumped on how to manage this. How can I feel compersion toward my boyfriend’s marriage again?
Advice – Poly wife struggling with mono husband seeing others for the first time.
My husband of fifteen years recently communicated to me that he too will like to date others to make new connections for himself. We’ve been “open” for the past eleven years, but I am really struggling with jealousy. How can I better manage my insecurities so that it doesn’t impede his progress?
Advice – Should I look for a deeper meaning in pursuing my other connections?
My husband and I have had an open marriage for the past twenty years, but I have only just started to date others. My husband recently questioned my sexual motives for seeking other connections, and asked me to look deeper. Am I superficial? Is sex really that different?
Advice – My coworker will not pursue a relationship with me even though he is attracted to me.
Things are so hot and cool with my coworker. He constantly flirts with me and tells me that I’m very attractive. But he said he isn’t interested in pursuing a relationship with me. What should I do?
Advice – I am feeling very jealous about my partner’s new partner.
I recently ended things with one partner because my metamour made the relationship with our shared partner impossible to maintain. And now my other partner is interested in pursuing a relationship with my former metamour. I am feeling so incredibly jealous and insecure about their budding connection. How can I better manage my feelings?
Advice – How do I have better sex? (NSFW)
I have only ever orgasmed with one past partner. Both my husband and my boyfriend each think that sex ends when they orgasm. How can I have a better sex life with each of my partners?
Advice – My partner slept with someone before I had a chance to meet her. Am I the asshole?
My primary partner slept with his girlfriend before I had an opportunity to meet her even though this was a preexisting agreement between us. I am angry with both of them. Am I the asshole for feeling upset?
Advice – My anxiety seem to wholly disagree with my desire to pursue non-monogamy.
I feel so anxious every time my boyfriend sleeps with another person. I really want to be ethically non-monogamous, but I hate being washed ashore by every little thing. How can I better manage my feelings?
