Advice – My wife is terrified to come out as polyamorous.
My wife has been struggling to accept her polyamorous and bisexual identity for the past three years. How can I better support her in these difficult times?
Advice – My long distance partner is separating from his wife.
My boyfriend is breaking up with his wife. I got really close my metamour as a close friend over the past year. I feel like I am being put in a very difficult place – in the middle – of their failing marriage. How can I manage this difficult situation?
Advice – How to define cheating in the context of non-monogamous relationships.
My monogamous boyfriend made out with my monogamous metamour in a state of inebriation. I feel so confused and betrayed. Is this considered cheating?
Advice – My husband will not take care of himself.
My husband developed a really poor personal hygiene habits after he became unemployed. He thinks that his hygiene issues are really more of my OCD problems and refuses to address them. What can I do?
Advice – I feel like I am living in my boyfriend's ex's life.
My boyfriend was in a serious long-term relationship with his fiancee. Sometimes, I feel like I’m living her life. Am I being overdramatic?
Advice – I found a porn video featuring my high school sweetheart who I am still friends with.
I found my old high school sweetheart and currently close friend on a porn video. We have had some back and forth throughout our connection, but I don’t know what would be the best way to approach this very delicate situation.
Advice – He says he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship with me.
A polyamorous boyfriend of a year and a half admitted that he would prefer a closed monogamous relationship. Is this a dealbreaker?
Advice – I feel very special when my secondary dates others, but not when my primary dates others.
“I have been together with my primary partner for 6 years now. Our relationship is super solid and we are still very much in love. He is not poly per se, more ‘open’ and only in love with me. I do struggle with feeling less special when he dates others. […]
Advice – How do I get started with non-monogamy?
“My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and ~7 months and I finally told him I’m polyamorous a few days ago. It was also the first time I came to terms with it. I had the doubt since dating my previous bf, but that wasn’t a good/healthy […]
Advice – Balancing conflicting boundaries.
“My partner John [29M] and I [23F] have been together for around 4 years, we’ve been poly from the start. We’ve both seen other people on and off and been able to work out boundaries comfortably before. Recently I’ve started talking to and getting involved (sexually, not romantically) with our […]
